Why Do Children Never Listen?

Well I don’t know about everyone else but I do know that my children never listen to me. No matter what I do I spanked, sent to corner, time outs, sent to bed early, sat down and talked too. But it doesn’t change anything. For example I talk on my cell phone outside because it is cheap and I do not get any bars in my house. It was late and I wanted my son whom is four to lie down, and he kept coming back outside. Well I wouldn’t have minded it so much if he had some bug stuff on. See my son is allergic to mosquito bites he swells up and turns red and itches like crazy. So in less then five minuets he had three bites on him and was swelling up. And he got mad at me for it. So I got off the phone went in and gave him medicine and some cream for the itch. After that it took me an hour to get him to lie down. So the next day he didn’t want to play outside because of the bugs, so I told him if he had had the bug stuff on he would have been fine. But my son doesn’t thin the stuff works because I had rubbed some on him the other day so he thinks it should still work today. So I am trying to make my son understand that it wore off. In other words he thinks he should stay in the house for the rest of his life.

Now my daughter is three and she talks but I can’t understand her only rare occasions. She likes to take her hands and hit the wall. Well when she does this she comes to me and wants me to kiss her hands and love on her like it was an accident. She did this like five times and then I told her to stop it. So obviously that destroyed her and she collapsed to the floor and cried. Two words “stop it” and her world fell apart. I didn’t even say it in that parent stern voice. So I picked her up and held her for awhile and then she was fine. About a half an hour later she was back to smacking the wall.

Neglectful Mother

It was a nice day I was laying my two year old son down for his nap. Everything was quiet I assumed he was asleep. After about twenty minuets I went in to check on him. I was mortified when I saw him. He was covered from head to toe in blood. I mean covered you couldn’t see the color of his skin. I picked him up and took him to the bath room; I turned on the shower to see where it had come from. It was his butt. He had scratched his butt raw. Both cheeks, the whole cheek. I started to cry and cry. See he had had this rash and I put destine and all kinds of butt rash medicine on him. But it never went away. I even changed his diapers and it was still their. I had changed some things he was eating in case it was that, that was breaking him out. The doctor had told me to put cortisone on him and he would be fine. Well when I got him all cleaned off I had wrapped him in a towel and took him to the hospital, I was just so scared. My husband was out of town and I couldn’t reach him I was mortified. When I got there it took the usual about an hour to get in, we sat there for about another hour and then here came the doctor. He told me it was because I didn’t change his diaper enough. Well I was mad because I would change him all the time even when he wasn’t wet I felt he had worn it to long. This man told me “you are being a neglectful mother”. I wanted to die it broke my heart. The nurse came in and gave my son a shot and some pink medicine. Right before we left the doctor came to me and said “you know he may just be allergic to diapers all together, you should just potty train him and he will be fine”. And then he walked off I wanted to slap him in his big stupid face for making me feel like crap. I had moved my sons’ bed beside ours and he slept naked for two weeks. When anything would touch his rear he would just cry. Except when I put calamine lotion on it. And it helped dry up his butt. When he was able to walk again I potty trained him, and he has been fine since then.

Driving 2

I was at the store today and I turned to go down an aisle, and there was a gentleman walking down the middle of the aisle. I honked and yelled out the window and he didn’t pay any attention to me. So it was my luck he parked at the very end of the aisle. And to make it worse he turns around when he gets to his car and does a wave thing and smiles. Ok I admit I am a little impatient, but I only see it as a nice gesture to move out of the way of cars.

Why is it that everyone complains about people that pull out in front of them but if you pull out in front of someone they were driving to fast or you thought they were driving slow enough.

Now I don’t think that by the type or color of cars they act like their better. Because I have seen the crappiest car, take up two parking spaces or dodge in and out of traffic. I think it is because it looks so bad that if they hit anyone it would just be an improvement. I think everyone would understand in having a new car maybe your first new car and wanting to take up two spaces not to be a prick but because you feel like everyone else in the world drives worse then you and it may get scratched. I have never had a brand new car so I don’t really know. I do know if I did get a new car I would treat it probably better then my kids. *smiles*

Something that I don’t get is someone can pull out in front of you and they will take the next turn off or they go ungodly slow. If I do pull out in front of someone I try and go fast enough to not be a complete prick.

Tailgating and everybody that will read this is like (yeah). Tailgaters are the worst I have come to a point that if they want to tailgate me I just stop. I have stopped on the road and the people behind me had to back up then go around. I know that may not be to smart but there is a lot of cars in my neighborhood that have stop doing it cause they know that I will stop.

Bad Habits

There are tons of bad habits. I have one like bitting my nails. I have seen others that pick their noses, bite their nails then spit the nail somewhere.

I can't stand farting, there are some people that fart and think it is funny. I have always thought it to be rude. They say it's healthy, well it isn't healthy for everyone else. I just think it is good manners not to have gas in front of everyone and then laugh about it. I hate going down an aisle at a store and you smell the worst thing, you know what I am talking about. Someone lets it all out and it's still there and you walk into it and breath it and you want to gag.

Belching is right up there with gas. I just think it is good manners to not belch in peoples faces or like you are trying to make it the loudest one ever.

Spiters is another, I have known several spitters in my time and it makes me sick when they suck up all that snot and spit it out. Then their like what do you want me to do swallow it. NO! But be kind enough to spit it into a napkin or something spitting it out and then possibly steping in it later thats just gross.

Butt diggers what the hell is up with that you see them everywhere. It's like they have something stuck right up their but and they dig and dig and then they finally find what their looking for, a pain in the butt.

I don't know if you wanna call it a bad habit, but words. Some people say "like" all the time or "dude" you know. There is one person you know that uses a word so much you end up hating whatever word it is and are sick of hearing it.

Chewers whether it is gum chewers or pencil chewers. There is just this sound that is like nasty. And they can't chew with their mouths closed or not slobber so much on the pen/pencil.

There are also tappers people that tap whatever is in their hand. Hell maybe they tap their hands on everything but they seem to have to make noise all the damn time. Whether your in school or at work it just drives you freakin nuts.

Oh and the perfect bad habit is the liar. No matter what he/she says you can't believe them cause they consantly lie about everything. You hear this far out story and they met whoppie goldburg or something crazy like that. Or yeah they are a complete chick/dude magnet and they could get a horny dog to hump their leg. Liars is deffinatly my number one bad habits, I will take a bad chewer anyday then a liar.

Tired Of Remakes

Ok their doing a Charlotte's Web what was wrong with the first one. Some are being discussed like the smurfs or I Dream Of Jeanie. A movie called The Eye with possibly Tom Cruise and Jessica Alba is to be made.
Some have been great like Batman Begins, The Punisher, Cheaper by the Dozen, the Grudge, Guess Who, Hills Have Eyes and a few more. I guess they are running out of things to make movies about so their going to remake all the old ones. Just wait their probably start remaking the great movies like Jaws, Star Wars, The Godfather. Remake movies that sucked and make them better. Now theres an Idea.

Friends

You know I hated school for many reasons but mostly because of friends. I moved a lot during school and didn't really get to have to many friends. And the people that was just wanted to be cause of my car. I am the type of person that would do anything for anybody. I had this so called friends many years ago that had taken some pills. She calles me and tells me that she is shaking and can't stop then suddenly theres nothing not a single sound. I drove what usually takes me an hour and a half drive in about forty five mins. I drove 90 to 100 mph just because I thought she had like an overdose or something I was scared for my friend. So I raced down there to find her. After about twenty mins of trying to find her I do. And you know what she says. It was stupid for you to drive down here. That was about the last I saw her.

I think it is hard to have friends today. People are so judgemental and so different. I usually say I know a lot of people. Because I don't hang with all of them. Having friends is a real challenge. I think when you find that friend when you can be yourself and be the most comfortable then keep them forever. Cause that is hard to come by. I feel so sorry for kids today feeling that there is people that they need to impress. I was the same way in school but after so many times I just became an outcast. So I hung with the wrong people but I was a good influence on them. I was to chicken crap to do anything really crazy. Between school work and the fact that you don't think you look good enough it's just to stressful. You are trying to please everyone and forget about yourself. Thats why you need that good friend thats there and you can bond with and relate too.

Self Checkouts

I would like to know why a lot of stupid people use the self check outs at stores. Most of them can’t work them and ask others for help. Some fight the machine because it kept a penny. I had a lady in front of me that was scanning tuna, the store was immensely busy. And this lady had like forty cans of tuna and she wanted to do them one at a time, so I offered to show her about pushing the number of items in and not having to scan each one. She said that I was just a stupid kid and to just stand their and mind my own business. I ended up going to a different lane and sat by the door to watch the stupidity of some people. I left after about fifteen minutes since when she would scan a single can the machine would tell her to wait for assistance. Needless to say when they were trying to close the store she was still there scanning her food.
This one I don’t mind so much cause I think I would raise hell too. There was this older gentleman about seventy something. And he swore the machine took two one hundred dollar bills. Now I was scanning my stuff into the machine that he said took the money. I had a whole cart full and he wanted me to stop and them check the machine. Well I thought I would be nice and let them look for his money. Well they took the cash out and it took four people to go through it to tell the man it wasn’t there. Well you know they have to empty those things out and well he had lost his money the day before. I got to finish my scanning and I thought that it was sad that this man was out that much money. I would have thought they could of asked the people that count it, but someone probably just saw them stuck together and felt like it was a good day. Or maybe they didn’t notice them stuck.

A Good Day

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Hey Peoples

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I know they may be my friends and all but even if they weren't they still rock. So save this and when you all get a chance take a look trust me it will be worth it, and if you hate it you suck.

My Family

I love my husband truly I do, but there are times I just wanna aaaahhhh! He works eight to ten hours a day. I stay home with the babies. I go and see friends and he gets irritated when I am gone for a few hours like one, two maybe three. I will admit I do say I'll be back in a little bit but it just feels so good to be out of the house and talking to people instead of arguing with my four year old on why he shouldn’t pick his nose. There are times when my husband sympathizes with me and we all go out. But when our kids start school I can then get a job and finally socialize.

Mother

I seem to go crazy at least once a day
Something has been broken
Or has been thrown away
Flushed something down the toilet that did not belong
Talked to a stranger
Or they fought all day long
You take them somewhere to get them a treat
And all they do is put sticky things down in the seat
I've answered the same question a dozen times
When will it end a child cries
You do what you can to stop all the tears
And it hurts the worst when you can't stop their fears
Feeding them seems like a really big chore
But at least you have 5 minutes until you clean the floor
You chase them around to gather to bathe
You blow bubbles and they blow gas
You giggle, you laugh and when it is time
You put them to bed not 1 2 but 3 times
Their finally asleep my favorite part
I go to my husband and fall all apart
How do I do it all day long?
Not a break, not a timeout, not nothing at all
He gives me a hug and gives me a kiss
I know why I do it; it's for times like this
Sometimes I feel better by having a shout
I love being a mother it is who I am
I wouldn't change it for nothing
Well, maybe a break now and then

By Me

Rocky Balboa 2006

In this new movie for rocky balboa adrian has died and he has his own restaurant. There is this type of video game and rocky wins up against the heavy weight champion. So people start to wonder what if he fights the real heavyweight champion. Would he win, with him having health issues that come with age he must be stronger tougher then before. This movie comes out December 22nd 2006.

Ok the first Rocky was cool the second was alright but after that they needed to stop. Now there may be some people that are looking forward to this movie so don’t take this personal. But Sylvester Stallone has gotten some age on him, not just that but another rocky movie come on that’s just too much. I watched the trailer for it and I will probably watch it when it comes to DVD. I don’t like to judge movies before I watch them. I'm just not looking forward to this one. I may be totally wrong it could rock but I won't hold my breath.

Stressed Out Momma

First your life is so different, groceries, friends, what you watch on television, and definitely you time. Being a mom changed so much all my single friends are like come hang out, you look like crap, what is that smell? But friends that have kids is like well lets go hang at the park, try some teabags for your eyes it does wonders, let me watch the baby so you can shower(alone).

Don’t get me wrong having kids is great, they can cuddle when their small, need you and love you. And when they get bigger they can say the craziest things. But to see your child look up at you and say they love you it is so heart warming and remember it cause when they get older they may not be as sweet.

My husband, I love him so much he is always there when I need him. I am extremely lucky to have him and I just hope other women can be as lucky. He helps me so much with the kids, I know he is the dad and he should help me but when he chases my daughter to change her diaper it is just too cute. Or to see his face when they say daddy, he looks so proud to be a dad. I am also lucky that he makes time for us. And I think you all know what I mean, after two kids under the age of five he makes time to take care of business. *smiles*

I know that there are all different kinds of situations but after talking about it, it doesn't sound so bad.

Cheating Couples

Why do couples cheat? I think if you are in that part of your life where your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, doens't do it for you, change it up. Make somethings interesting cause they may not know how you feel. I was cheated on once, I caught him at a party up stairs. And I would have rather known him tell me how he felt then catching him later. At womendivorce.com they have forty six signs of cheating by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach. They were kind enough to let me use their top ten.


1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had avasectomy.
2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either knowabout the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wifeor girlfriend you are.)
3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring andreturns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.
6) She joins the gym and begins a vigorous workout program.
7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

So if you are cheating and are not happy in the relationship you are in now I don't think the relationship should be dragged out. Cause if there is someone else that makes you happy end your current relationship and then be with them. Thats just to much pain for your partner and your just hurting yourself as well.