Cheating Couples

Why do couples cheat? I think if you are in that part of your life where your spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend, doens't do it for you, change it up. Make somethings interesting cause they may not know how you feel. I was cheated on once, I caught him at a party up stairs. And I would have rather known him tell me how he felt then catching him later. At womendivorce.com they have forty six signs of cheating by Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach. They were kind enough to let me use their top ten.


1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had avasectomy.
2) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either knowabout the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wifeor girlfriend you are.)
3) Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
4) Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
5) He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring andreturns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.
6) She joins the gym and begins a vigorous workout program.
7) She buys a cell phone and doesn't let you know.
8) He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.
9) The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
10) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.

So if you are cheating and are not happy in the relationship you are in now I don't think the relationship should be dragged out. Cause if there is someone else that makes you happy end your current relationship and then be with them. Thats just to much pain for your partner and your just hurting yourself as well.