So tell me why has love faded? I would like to know how many people have loved uconditionaly. Have you ever just looked at someone and you could see you growing old together? Taking care of each other. The children you would have and the grandchildren. Have you ever just looked at them and knew in your gut you wanted to be with them ONLY them for the rest of your life. Now see I have. My husband is perfect for me and to see how hard it is for others and it bothers me. There are people that want a relationship and the people they date only want sex. I think woman today have become terrible in judging. Woman say the good guys are either taken or gay. Which I think is a crock. Woman seem to want this idea guy. Tall dark and handsome. What if you got your tall dark and handsome and he was a complete asshole. He beat you and cheated. But hell at least he is good looking right. And guys are just as bad. The whole,"well she has a great personality". Don't be so quick to judge people. Yeah she may not be wonder woman and perfect from head to toe. But she may be the only girl that will ever love you. The thing with divorce today is pathetic. I think people should be engaged for at least four years and live together two years. Cause people usually get a divorce after the first year and if you do it this way at least all you gotta do is leave. Why is it that everyone doesn't look for the person to be with forever it is always the right now. Someone to bang not to love. And if a guy/girl does say they love you then you freak out and go all stupid, and run away. I just think it is sad and relationships should be more meaningfull. Cause you never know that the person you just dumped was your one and only. But at least you are free to bang the next person with no problems and just hope it will be that easy when your forty or fifty cause by then you better hope to have a great job or no twenty year old will *uck a old person just for the fun of it.
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Hmmm...with all due respect, I think you're being a little judgmental there, Impatient.
I came here from Lee's blog.
I'm 50. Was married for 17 years, two kids, wasn't the greatest of marriages but never thought once about ending it.
In fact, kinda like what you're saying now, I couldn't understand why so many of my friends' marriages were breaking up.
I'd almost feel like I was somehow better than them, that they had just screwed up, that that would never happen to ME.
You know what? It did happen. I married the wrong person. And sometimes you just can't know that until it ends up that way.
Shit happens. We all make mistakes. In our case, we had very different parenting styles, among other issues as it later turned out.
We didn't have kids for five years. Then the problems magnify, it's a test of your love and caring and relationship and who you are, the two of you, together.
And before you know it, the kids are 10, you've been married 15 years and the shit's hitting the fan.
I'm happy for you that you and your husband have a happy marriage, I really am.
And I hope it stays that way and that you are among the roughly 50 per cent of couples who DO stay together your entire lives.
It just seems you're painting everyone whose marriages have broken up with the same broad brush stroke, and I don't think that's necessarily true.
I loved someone deeply once but he had a car accident and that was that. I did go on to marry someone else at one stage but as it turned out he became quite aggressive and I had to get out of it. I get upset sometimes - not over the loss of him but the loss of "the dream" - of what you thought it would be. I am the last person who thought that their marriage would end. Ah, you just never can tell :).
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